Met my other half #part 2

Oke .,here's the thing is I don't know anything about him, where he lives, what kind of neighborhood he was living in. By that time I just clueless. Then something came to my mind is 'lahaula wala quwwata illa billah' ., I'm not saying anything. Only one word. 'Insyaallah'.
Aq sih ingetnya ibu q bilang 'Jalani aja dulu siapa tau baik untuk Kamu, yang ibu liat sih sopan anaknya biar agak pendiem dan suaranya pelan sekali' #tipikal mas mas kan gitu ya?? Kalem Kalem gimanaaa gitu# aheuu. Ibu q kasih rumus lagi, 'sering istikharah sama tahajud biar diliatin Baik apa ngga nya'.
Subhanallah singkat kata aq ga tau berasa kok chemistry jadi nambah terus. Ya lewat mimpi dsb blablabla. Padahal itu bulan ke tiga kami berkomitmen. Dan satu bulan hanya sekali ketemunya. It means only three times.
Terus dari situ, hubungan kami agak bermasalah. He was doubting LDR. #bdg-cilegon#. Well we never know how strong the relationship without any trouble, right? Just say it that way.
And we had time out just to think how badly we want this. It happened for almost a month. But then, I don't know what came through his mind. #let say Allah 'Maha Kuasa Penggerak dan Pembolak balik Hati'. He suddenly proposed me. 2nd time. This time was officially. Kali ini keluarga bakal dia bawa langsung ke bandung. Then 'bang'. The Proposal was Accepted.
Just like the other couple. We arranged our marriage.
Past 6 month, then here comes the D-Day. Aq  ga tau orang lain mengalaminya juga atau  ngga. Tapi yang jelas aq tidak bisa tidur sama sekali. Those mind are comes and goes. Dan keinginan untuk diberikan yang terbaik oleh  Allah makin kerap aq ucapkan. Bahkan sholat shubuh pun I've cried soooooo hard. It's just like shocked. #please deh.,. Pdhl kan pilihan sendiri yak??? Soooooo sad, happy all gather in my head.
Sad because I had clueless about marriage life and I have to leave my family. It's just like my father doesn't have any responsibilities over me anymore. Happy because I have my own partner in life that I can count on. I have a friend, brother, father, lover in one package. Yes.,. On him. Finally.
Aq percaya jodoh itu dia, setelah aq akhirnya duduk di meja akad nikah, di samping dia. Saat itu aq bilang dalam hati 'ini janji Allah, Dia telah menunjukan yang terbaik buat aq., Insyaallah'. Ijab qabul in one shot. I still remember how hard his voice when he says 'saya terima nikah dan kawinnya Elin .,. Blablaba'., and me?? Aq cuma shahadat, takbir, istighfar, dsb. Just for couraging him.
Only in one minute I turned to be his wife.,. Awww like that title.

This is dedicate to him. Who always been like my friend, my brother, my father, my husband and my lover. There you go. You have complete me.....

Met my other half #part 1

Assalamu'alaikum..,

Duuh lagi semangat semangatnya belajar jadi author nih. Hehe here's the story about how I've met my first boyfriend who turned out to be my hubby. :)

First boyfriend??? Oke. Actually dari SD juga aq udah naksir naksiran, well andai kata cinta monyet ga di itung ya,, Hehe .. Well first love is different to first boyfriend thou., #Hehe ngeles.

Well, here's the thing is.., kekuatan do'a itu subhanallah sekali yaa. Aq ga tau kenapa selalu kepikiran semacam mensugesti diri sendiri kalo aq ingin having a serious relationship when I met the one in a perfect time.

Dan subhanallah, Allah denger do'a q yg ini. Bayangkan dari SMP, SMA, kuliah bahkan saat kerja pun aq ga pernah ngalamin komitmen apapun biarpun ada aja yang deket.

Sempat ngerasa 'there's something wrong????' Hahhahah

But then I find my self to think that is not all about me. There's something happened for a reason right? I know by that time my two lovely sister was not married yet. Then I said ''oo, Allah if it's really for our best, it's ok''.

Time flies, kakak q satu persatu menemukan jodohnya. Alhamdulillah. Saat itu, menjelang pernikahan kakak q yang ke 4, tiba2 my high school friend yang tinggal di kota cilegon telpon aq. And then bla bla

bla.,. Then she suddenly said 'lin, aq punya temen kerja ingin punya jodoh orang bandung' Ooo that line.,. I just keep remember that., Hahhahah.

Tapi awalnya biasa aja tanggepinnya. Sampeee ada email masuk, and she send out his pic. Well I must say, he's older in that pic. #lol.., sorry pap.., just try to be honest#. And I had some doubt. Then we begin to sending text, called by night, and my perspective was lil bit changing.

So on and so on. He went to bandung for the first time he said and my friend suci accompanying him. And I still remember when his hand was shakin'. #lol., I don't know if it was acting??#

A month since 1st met, surprisingly he said he want to meet me again. I thought that if he doesn't want to go back then let it slip and skip. Hehe

Then I take him to my sister house, whom held syukuran at that time. It means that all my family was there. Hahhahah perfect timing to 'pelonco dia'.

Singkatnya, saat dia pamit Pulang, tiba tiba 'Kamu mau jadi istri aq?' and I'm like 'what????' hold on., are you kidding??

Hari gini masih bisa yakinkah saat hanya ketemu 2 kali? Galau mendera.....

our prewedd

To be continued .. V^,^V

Me = Conservative

Assalamualaikum, kenalin aq elin ,, aq newbie di dunia perbloggan ini n masih belajar buat bisa nyempurnain page q.,. #yaa masih meraba2 nih.., jd Maafin kalo kekurangan dimana2 ., ^,^
aq pengen flashback dikit soal kehidupan aq.
Lahir dari keluarga yang sederhana tapi ga neko2 telah melahirkan karakter q yang konservatif.
Konservatif ,. 

Yaaa Atau mungkin orang biasa bilang kuno Hehe. Kayaknya cuma itu kata yang bisa gambarin karakter aq, slain anak ke 5 dari 5 bersaudara .,yg berartiiii agak manja., sedikiiiitttt !!!!!!!! :p. jujur, waktu  sekolah menengah saat temen2 banyak ngadain acara ulangtaun ato cuma ngemall ato hangout bisa bebas aja pulang ke rumah lewat jam 7 malem ato jam 9 malem.., kalo aq????? Izin Pulang jam 5., Hahhahah Yaaa Yaaa awal nya temen2 ga bisa terima tapi lama2 Udah biasa n Mereka panggil aq c anak pingitan.,. Uuugghhh rasanya sebeelll bgt waktu itu..
Sampe kuliah pun orang tua q masih netapin jam malem, naek dikit sih, 'jangan pulang kemaleman ya, ga Boleh lewat jam .,.,.,.,. 8'. Hahhahah kalo inget sekarang yaa jam segitu baru juga ngumpul udah di suruh pulang lagi.
Daaaaaann jurus ampuh perdebatan kecil dengan orang tua q itu akhirnya pasti gini 'nanti juga udah punya suami bebas terserah mau kemana aja sampe jam berapa juga' Hahhahah ya iaaaaa lah aq bilang.., Ckckck.
Lama kelamaan aq terbiasa sama pola pergaulan yang kebilang 'aman' ini. sayangnya mungkin aq jadi kurang explore. Tapi untungnya aq ga kekurangan temen2 yang seru. Alhamdulillah. Dari temen waktu SD Sampe kuliahpun masih berasa sama aja dan bahkan tambah seru saat Semua udah berkeluarga.
Satu hal aq bersyukur sekali sama Allah diberikan kedua orang tua yang 'kuno' namun perhatian, tetap membiarkan anaknya berada di jalur yang semestinya.
Well I must say that my parent is the best. And I wanna say thank you a bunch bunch bunch.,. Love them forever :') 

my young mommy